All of us are very unique. We all are different. Every one of us has the power to be the best at whatever we want to do. We all are star for us, but still we doubt our brightness thinking about what other people will think, or we think no one would want to look anyway. And, most of us don’t know how to let it out.
A star is much more than name, fame, fortune, paparazzi, wealth and popularity. In fact, a star is someone full of positive energy, love, and joy who can let that energy flow through into the world. No one knows you better than yourself. You know your value, what beauty lies within you, what you give to the world and only one who can see your vision from concept to completion. You don’t need to doubt if you are really special and creative or not – it’s just a fact of life that you are.
1. Believe in yourself
If you really want to shine, the first person who has to believe how awesome you are is you! Take some time and list all your positive traits to keep those in mind when you have bad days! If you believe in you, you can easily get whatever you want in life. Everything you have in your life is a result of your belief in yourself and the belief that it’s possible. If you won’t believe in you only, then how others can believe in you. Your thoughts and belief is the result of what you are in life.
Focus is so important because it is the gateway to all thinking: perception, memory, learning, reasoning, problem-solving, and decision making. … And if you can’t think effectively, you definitely can’t produce the quality of work necessary to be successful. Focus on what you want now, all day, every day, this week, this month, this year and for your overall life. Focusing on what you want is the only way to get what you want.
You should be very clear about what you want so that you can have a clear vision to focus on. Focus can be improved through meditation and exercise.
3.Shine your light on others
What being a star actually means is a lot closer to the astronomical, outer space kind of star. It burns brightly. It is immense and radiant. It is a being of light. You are a being of light. You should spread light on others. Rather than being more focused on oneself, you should show interest in others.
Imagine you are holding a flashlight showing yourself, it just gives you an ugly shadow. But if you show light on others, people think you are awesome. Be authentic. Be real. Don’t be fluffy but just show genuine interest to others. Shining is an outward thing. It’s taking attention away from yourself.
4. Maintain your vehicle
Take excellent care of yourself. You have one vehicle – your body that lasts entire your life with you. Your body is your instrument. Do take care! Exercise, eat healthy and maintain your vehicle.
You have to consistently upgrade yourself, by knowledge wise or health wise or personality-wise… Keep on upgrading! Always try to get the better version out of you.
5. Live intentionally
Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst, a spark that creates extraordinary results.
Thus, Watch your thoughts, they become your words; watch your words, they become your actions; watch your actions, they become your habits; watch your habits, they become your character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny. We are what we think, so choose your thoughts.
6. Cut out the toxic people in your life
If you really want to shine like a star, you need to say goodbye to the people in your life who hold you back and bring you down. The circle around you determine who you are as a person. There’s an old saying: “Those who lie down with dogs will wake up with fleas.” What is means is that the traits and characteristics of whomever you associate rub off on you.
So if you spend time with ambitious, intelligent, curious folks, you’ll learn more. But hang out with angry, drug-addicted people, and your 500% more likely to become just like them. Most truly successful people credit their ruthless refusal to spend any time on lazy losers as one of the reasons they made it. Thus, be selective to choose your friends and completely avoid the negative people who pull you down.
7. If you don’t know where to start, just ask
We all have millions of interest, but don’t know how to choose the right path! We all are talented, it’s just we are not well aware of it. So, if you are confused ask the source of life to show you. Think what you really want in life, whats your passion that you can continuously do without getting tired or without any financial benefits, what you enjoy more to do in life is the actual right path of your life. Then you find your purpose in life.
9. Let go
Don’t put much stress and pressure on you, taking too seriously to be a star is not a good thing. Be natural and easy on yourself. Do not imitate anyone. Be yourself, that makes you unique from others. Have a positive thought and strong will, trust that the universe will help you, the solution will come.
Remind yourself what you want and just focus on that, everything will happen effortlessly.
“They say if you truly want something from your heart, the whole universe conspires to bring it to you.”