C R U S H
A magical word, isn’t it?
Life feels less interesting or boring if you don’t have a crush on someone. Can you still remember how it felt to have a crush on a boy or a girl for the first time? What was your first crush like? Did he make your heart flutter with just a single glance? Or Did he make you lost in the world of your imagination? Did you often steal his glimpse without him knowing? Or Did he make you do little stupid things like blushing, making your heart skip a beat, or enchanting his name silently? I am sure this is what our crush makes us do. Having a crush means losing self-control over own feelings.
My eyes to erase you but my footstep goes to find you
Dear Crush, I love You
A crush is a strong feeling of romanticism, an infatuation toward someone which is unexpressed or remains unexpressed and doesn’t last long. If you ask my personal opinion on what a crush is I will define a crush as an unrequited love- a longing, silent suffering yet a beautiful feeling. Someone from my high school told me, “First Crush is Never Ours”. And I literally believed it. Yet I could never give up on my crush. I believed having a crush is like being in love with someone whom we can never have. But I was so wrong. Guess what?? Now my very first crush is truly, madly, and deeply in love with me.
So, trust me guys I am expertise in this field. Hahaha!!! I may not be. But using the following methods I could make my crush fall in love with me and make him speak the language of love dedicated to me. These tips are surely helpful in making our crush fall in love with you.
How To Make Your Crush Fall In Love With You
Drawing the attention of your dear person is no easy task. More if you happen to have a crush on the most popular boy in your high school. The reason is that we feel so much inferior or lacking in comparison to our crush making our self-confidence crushed and on the other hand, we feel as if the person we have cush on is on the level of stars and the moon. Relatable? To feel this way is common. This is exactly how our infatuation makes us feel. Following these tips you can make your dear person fall in love with you:
1. Try Initiating Conversation or Make A Move
If you want to make your crush fall for you, you have to make effort. Try talking to him/her in a very natural way. Start learning what he/she likes and what makes him/her happy or which games he likes. Know it all. Knowing his likes and dislikes is going to aid you in making him fall for you. Ask them to help you in your study or go for a walk after school or plan study night or movie night. And if they are up for it, know you have a good chance. Don’t just stay doing nothing. You can do either unless you want someone else taking the heart of your dear person.
2. Compliment and Make them Feel Special
We, humans, love being complimented and made feel special. We love it and we love the person who makes us feel that way. Your infatuation is no exception. Compliment them often. If he is wearing a nice shirt compliment them by saying you look great in your shirt, it suits you.
Or notice small changes in their appearance. If they have done different hairstyles, say you like how different and cool your hair looks today. I am sure if you notice the small details he does to look good, you will be able to enter his mind. Your crush will think about you. First, enter his mind and then his heart.
3. Laugh at their Joke
Whenever they say something funny, laugh at their joke. Laughter produces positive emotions such as happiness, joy, amusement, and mirth. If you laugh at their jokes, he/she will enjoy your company and will want to spend more time with you.
4. Spend Time with them
The more you spend time with them the fast you start bonding. So spend a good time with them but again in process of spending time with them don’t overdo it. Find out if they enjoy you being around or not. It is very important to have patience. So, don’t rush. Take it slow and make it seem effortless and natural as much as you can. If they like your company then good for you. Try being close to them. Sit next to them at lunch. Suggest movie time together or going home together after school. Try to spend a good time with your crush without making him or her feel awkward.
5. Ask them to do Small Favors
It is psychologically proven that asking a small favor causes people to like someone more after they do that person a favor. Try it on your crush. If they help you or perform small services for you, they can associate a positive feeling with you unconsciously. Ask them for small favors like helping you in your study or asking them for a pen in a classroom. It will help you to initiate a conversation with them and help them to connect with you even more.
Talking about yourself is fun. Telling your crush how your friend fell from the stairs in front of everyone is hilarious. But your crush might not be interested to hear such things about someone who he even doesn’t know. He might not find it hilarious even though it is.
Make sure you talk about yourself to the point it is necessary. Better listen to him. Listen to what he says. Let him talk about his birthday, or his family or his friend. If you listen to him carefully, he will really appreciate it. Be the first wisher on his birthday, I am sure you are going to hold a special place in his heart.
Read this article if you want to be a good listener.
7. Make Eye Contact
Lemme make you aware of one interesting psychology, making eye contact can cause the release of the oxytocin which is also called the love hormone. People who like one another tend to have eye contact occasionally. Making eye contact will help you to focus on the conversation and read their facial expression. Make eye contact when you are with your crush. Doing so will make you look confident and attractive.
Whenever you are together and your crush is saying something to you, avoid looking down or staring at your phone or across the room. It will make you look as if you are not interested and your crush might get the wrong idea. So, make eye contact with you are sharing a conversation.
8. Confess Your Feelings
Be honest with your feelings. Confess how you feel about your crush. Avoid playing mind games or hard to get. Doing so will make things more complicated. So, be honest with yourself and with your crush. Let him know how you feel about him.
9. Be Yourself
It is very important to be liked for who you are. You don’t have to pretend to be someone who you are not just for the sake of being liked by your crush or anyone else. It is good to chase the person whom you like or wanted to be like back by them, but if it comes with the cost of losing your true self it’s not worth it.
So, present as you are in front of your crush. Talk how you usually talk, dress how you usually dress and make sure to present the real you. If they like you for who you are then congratulation on winning your crush.
10. Don’t force Conversation
The conversation is important if you want to win the heart of your infatuation, but you don’t have to force it. Get-to-know each other is the most exciting stage in any relationship. So, take it slow and enjoy every little talk. You probably will not like to scare your dear person by asking lots of personal questions in a single day or will you? So, take the flow of conversation at a good pace. If possible just go with the flow.
If you have a crush on a boy or a girl, then follow these methods to make them fall for you. Having a crush on our teenage is common. Crushing on a beautiful or handsome teacher, or our best friend or anyone is a story of every teenager, I believe. And if you want to take your infatuation to next level i.e. want them to fall for you as you have fallen, all these mentioned tips are going to be a great help to you.
Have a good romantic life with your Dear Crush!!
We wish you all the best!!